would you take your partner’s last name?

let’s say that your partner doesn’t really care what you choose to do because your name is your decision. what would you do?

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I would keep my last name, I like my last name. 

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Personally, it would depend on the person's last name and the overall stage of life I'm in at that time.

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I’m a guy so my spouse would change her name.

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I most likely wouldn't, or might hyphenate, because I have an exceedingly rare last name (as in I am actually the only person in the world with my first name and my last name)

There are less than 150 people in the US with my last name, and I really wanna pass it on to my kids in some way, although I don't know if I will, because it is a real mouthful and I don't want to condemn them to a life of long pauses after their first name in role call

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I’d keep my own

 

@mamon not to be rude,,, but it’s the spouse’s choice, not your’s. It is common for the wife to change her name to match her husband’s, but it doesn’t happen all the time.

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I also have a very rare last name. My family is from Norway. If my husband has a rare last name I would probably change my name. But if it's a really common last name I would probably keep my name. Is that weird.

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I've got a somewhat uncommon last name, and it's very lengthy, so I'd hyphenate since I want to see the faces of the people at the airport

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probably not, for my own reasons

and because a friend jokingly advised me not to

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my last name is very rare, and no one in the world has my full first name. if you look up my full name, it autocorrects to my dads name and in google images my dad's picture at UTSA (dont live there now)  is the first result...

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It depends on the name. If it turns my name into something like Bob Ross, then obviously not, but otherwise, it shows my devotion to my spouse.

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i’d personally like to hyphenate because i feel like it combines 2 family names into one, therefore 2 families into one. plus my last name is short and simple. 

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people come into our lives for a reason

bringing something we must learn

we are led to those who help us most to grow

we help them in return

i don't know if i believe that's true

but i know i'm who i am today

because i knew you

Of course! Even if it's not symbolic to him, it is to me.

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I don’t know. I feel like I would but I have no idea at this point in time. 

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Eh, I don’t really care? Like, it’s not symbolic of our relationship, sooo...

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Mine last name is pretty common I think but I wouldn't change it because I feel like it keeps me a part of my family.

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no, because i don't ever want to lastingly bind myself to somebody like that. freedom > pretty much everything else in life to me tbh

 

(if i was ever to adopt a kid [and yes, adopt, because the world doesn't need more squalling babies and there are so many people out there who need a home, and also unless by the time i'm that old they've invented something to let two people of the same gender have a baby it'd feel strange for me to do otherwise] [which i doubt would happen b/c i hecking hate kids and i want my privacy] i'd do hyphenated though, and be careful that they wouldn't end up like me with technically two last names but only one actually used)

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my last name is pretty unusual so meh idrk

 

 

 

i guess it'd depend on my spouse's last name.

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Well, I mean, I have an uncommon last name so it kind of depends. 

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I'd change my last name to my spouse's out of respect. I mean, my last name isn't that bad but I'm not fond of it because of a kid I used to that called me Mickey Mouse (He also thought that was my name for a bit apparently). 

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i just found out my mum didn't change her last name bc she didn't want to deal with paperwork

 

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happeh  

 

people come into our lives for a reason

bringing something we must learn

we are led to those who help us most to grow

we help them in return

i don't know if i believe that's true

but i know i'm who i am today

because i knew you

My last name is super rare.

My great (great?) Grandpa changed his last name when he came to America, and changed it to a name that no one else has or has ever used. Everyone with my last name is related to me in some way.

Also, being a foreign name, it's spelled weirdly and people always get the spelling wrong.

But yeah about changing it i dont really care. I'd probably change it to his for symbolic reasons, and because we need to decide on a last name.

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I have three last names and i just kinda wanna get going yknow??? Combine all of my names with my partner's,,, make my kid have four last names,,, sounds like the dream

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I'd probably hyphenate because my last name is also a nickname that I don't mind. It's very long and is very often misspelt. I'd love to torture people with it. 

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i would hyphenate. my last name is common, but very important to me. and i'm sure my spouse would understand that.

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I would probably continuously change my last AND first name once I become and adult. they'll never find me! 

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